Saturday, October 13, 2012

Life and Death

You never know where life is going to take you.  One moment you are sitting on the sunny shores of complete bliss, and the next you are lost in a deep, dark stage of despair.  Life is full of beginnings and endings.  Joyous births and heartbreaking loses.  Sometimes it is difficult to ever feel stable in our lives.  This past summer was one of the most wonderful and most painful times in our lives.

Sophie June....

Born July 3, 2012

Sophie blessed our family this past July and has been such a wonderful addition to our family of girls!  She has the sweetest spirit and the most adorable smile.  We joke that she is the world's most loved baby because of the attention she receives from Gracie and Stella (and of course from mommy and daddy!).  July was a busy but amazing month.  From the moment she was placed in our arms we have felt that she has always been a part of our family.  I find myself relishing the way she coos or the way her little fingers close around my shirt when I am holding her.  God has given us such a lovely little princess to care for, and we are so grateful!  This, was our joy this summer.

And this was our heartbreak...


Voxie

September 30, 2008-August 13, 2012



Voxie, our beautiful niece, left us this past August.  She was a bright and spirited little girl that will never be forgotten.  Our lives were forever changed on the day she passed away.  I have tears as I write this, and pretty much every time I think of this moment. Voxie blessed all who knew her with her beautiful smile and mischievous nature.  Whenever she wandered into trouble, I found myself struggling not to smile while trying to discipline her.  And you have never seen a little girl that loved the color pink more than she did.  She dressed herself uniquely from head to toe and the world was a prettier place because of her style.  A dark cloud hung over our hearts the day we watched her be laid to rest, and it has been difficult to move forward and not miss her constantly.  I had images of her growing up along with our girls.  I wanted to have her stay with us during the summers and immerse herself in all of the girlishness of our home.  We would take her to get her nails done, and buy dresses that were fluffy and hot pink.  I had visions of getting to take her to the make up counter with Stella when they were in high school.  Even though I believe God is good, and He has a plan, it is hard not to feel completely robbed.  She will always be missing.  She will always have a place in our hearts.  We loved her immensely and we always will.

It is rare to experience such happiness and pain so close together.  This summer changed our lives for better, and for worse.  We move forward now a changed family and we await what is next for us.  The lesson learned is to enjoy each moment we are given.  You never know when life will change, but we do know that change is inevitable. 




Saturday, December 11, 2010

We are back...in pictures!

Keton and Stella!

Gracie and Mommy!

The girls with their best friends!


Stella hanging out in pigtails!


Wearing a Christmas box as a hat...why not?


Gracie nibbling before Thanksgiving dinner!


The beautiful table that my mother-in-law Darcee set for Thanksgiving!


Gracie enjoying the ocean view while we were out shopping!


The giant tree we go to see every year at Fashion Island!


Keton and I enjoying a "grown up" weekend out at a wedding!


Sisters sharing some movie time....so cute.

Forgive me for not keeping up with this blog, and for not sharing the girls these past few months. Time is precious, and before I knew it each day was gone and sleep was needed! So the blog went by the wayside...yet again. But, just in time for the new year, I will try to add this to my list of resolutions and keep in touch once again!

We are doing very well, and the girls are as healthy and happy as we have ever seen them. Each day is a blessing, and it seems as though each week and month are bringing more and more changes. They have become young little girls and have left the baby days far behind! Gracie is going to be getting registered for Kindergarten in January, which is truly hard to believe. Stella is on the brink of being potty trained, and even though our wallets will be happy about that milestone, my heart kind of hurts over it. What happened to my babies? The little chubby, squishy little babies? They have disappeared. And in their place stand beautiful and blossoming little ladies.
I have tears as I write this. Thank the Lord for his blessings, but it would be nice to push the pause button on old Father Time every so often...

Tears brushed aside, we are loving life and loving the joy that these two little munchkins bring! Gracie has begun to learn how to write, and seems to be a natural at forming letters. She is very interested in books and words, and is always asking me what everything "says". I am hoping that she will be a reader like me! It will be wonderful to share books and stories with her over the years.

Stella has developed an amazing vocabulary! Peppered with an occasional phrase that should not be uttered....She certainly knows how to speak her mind and charm her audience. Keton and I are constantly looking at each other in amazement as she rattles off yet another descriptive and well developed sentence. Of course, we think Gracie is teaching her well (and God knows she gets her talking skills from her mother!).

This Christmas season has been one of the best. We are spending time together as a family, baking goodies, traveling to festive sites, driving around to see the decorated houses, and watching as many Christmas movies as we can stand! It is lovely to not have this time of year be revolving around stressful gift lists, or busy hours spent apart from each other. I hope your families are able to take some quiet time out for yourselves, and to really share the joy of this time of year.

It races by faster each year, doesn't it? Two more weeks to enjoy it....and we intend to do just that. Go and squeeze a loved one, drink some hot cider, and put on White Christmas.

Monday, August 23, 2010

Baby Verst's Baby Shower!

Our good friends Austen and Heather Verst are welcoming their first baby in November this year. They are being blessed with a boy, and are too excited for words. Saturday we hosted a baby shower for Heather, and it was such a good time! The theme was sports, and we had "Take me out to the ball game" center pieces! Everything turned out adorable, and Heather was glowing from beginning to end. It is always so sweet for me to be able to see new moms-to-be opening gifts, looking at clothes for their newborn, asking questions about births and deliveries. These kinds of conversations and events remind me of when our girls were born. And when I was pregnant with them. The years are flying, and I tired to remember the joy of it all when I was celebrating with Heather on Saturday. Here are some photos!
Congratulations to Austen and Heather, and may the rest of the pregnancy go wonderfully! We cannot wait to meet him!!!!!!!!!!!

Our Summer Vacation 2010!!!!!!!


Every summer we plan a little family vacation, and this summer we were blessed to be able to go and visit with friends and family up in central and northern CA. We stopped off in Fresno to see Grandma and Grandpa, and even were lucky enough to leave the little ones for a few days so that we could go and visit our friends Jason and Melanie up in Sacramento. They were the best hosts ever, and we had a great time out on their boat, eating great food, and being shown the beautiful sights within their area. From there we went back to spend the week with Grandma and Grandpa, and of course the girls too! It was great to visit with everyone and the girls were able to use their new pool whenever they wanted, so they were happy as can be. For the second week of our vacation, we headed up to Mammoth, CA, which is a mountain town with amazing things to see and do. Our friends Danny and Julia were gracious enough to let us in on their family vacation and we all were able to stay in a great condo right in town. They have two adorable boys, Ben and James, and the girls had such a blast with them! We went to different lakes and tourist attractions, and kept busy with a lot of fun activities for everyone. It was such a great two weeks, and we took many pictures to capture the memories!


It was such a great time for our family! There are many more pictures, but not enough space to show all of the fun we had. We owe our friends and family a giant thank you for everything! It is truly a blessing to have friends and family that are loving and caring, and I know our girls find such joy and comfort in them.
Cheers to our Summer of 2010 vacation!

Stella turns 2!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stella turned two on July 20th, and it has taken me this long to blog about it! Perhaps I just don't want to accept that my "baby" has officially exited the baby and toddler phase and entered the preschool years (although I think she still has some toddler months left...). Here are some pictures from her special birthday!

Here is Gracie getting ready for swimming!


Here is Stella checking out the cake!
This is one of her and her uncle Colton; I think it captures her personality perfectly! We all had so much fun celebrating her day, and I know she did too. Stella has been such a blessing to us, and such a wonderful addition to our family.
Happy birthday baby, we love you so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, June 27, 2010

A Healthy Lifestyle

I often post about living healthy, eating healthy, exercise, etc. Some of my friends and family think I focus too much on this, or that it is not really that important. I disagree. The life we are living may be short, but I would like my family and myself to live it with quality. Most of our friends have turned 30, or may be a little older, a little younger. This is the age where the women begin the "anti-aging" talks, and the men begin to complain about their backs hurting or their hair loss. Each year that passes will just be making us older, and in turn we may have some health problems (and wrinkles!) coming our way.
I refuse to be older than I am, and when you eat poorly, sleep poorly, refuse to exercise, etc., you begin to feel older than you are. Your body will not function properly, you will be fatigued and injury prone. Keton and I do not believe this is a way to live, and when you have two little energy-loaded children to look after, you have to be on a health kick to keep up.
The idea for this post came to me after another one of my friends and coworkers asked me (yet again) how I can possibly live as a vegetarian. Well, I do eat fish, so technically I am a pescetarian. This question has been asked of me several times, and by both friends and family. There were even people that believed I would pass out during my half marathon because I was simply not eating right.
Perhaps I should set the record straight, and maybe even rub off some of my non-meat-eatingness on one or two people (yes, I realize that this is not grammatically correct, but just go with it). I have been a vegetarian for four years now, and prior to giving up all meat I stopped eating beef a good nine years ago. Yep, no burgers or steak for nine years. When I was a meat eater I had various digestive issues frequently, and was a good 15-20 lbs heavier. I ate out at fast food places without too much thought. When I had Gracie, I did not want meat any longer and so I gave it up and changed my diet. All of a sudden, I wasn't eating fries too often since there were no burgers or chicken sandwiches being ordered. Fast food seemed kind of silly, since there were not many vegetarian options (and those salads are not really good options!). We ate at home more, and I learned to cook new meals with various kinds of vegetables and proteins. Not only did I drop the weight, but I began to feel so much better! I was a vegetarian all throughout my pregnancy with Stella (and she came out at 8lbs!) and I did not pass out during my recent half marathon.
Case closed. No meat required! Truthfully, I do not view meat as "bad", although certain kinds and fat percentages should always be avoided. But taking meat off of my plate has forced me to make the rest of my diet healthy, and in order to get the fats and proteins I need, I have to really concentrate on what I am eating. This automatically creates an awareness of what you place in your body. That is where I believe the real health benefit is.
So, here is a typical summer meal for us:
This is a yummy salad with baby spring mix lettuce, butter lettuce, fresh blueberries, pecans (unsalted), feta cheese (with a light hand), cucumbers and basalmic vinegarette dressing (light). The side dish is frozen cherries. If I have beans on hand I throw in some garbanzos or kidney beans too. The cheese, beans, olive oil in the dressing, and pecans (0r any nut) is where I get the good fats and proteins. The veggies and beans are a great source of fiber and vitamins. You can make a salad a meal! Just toss in your favorite veggies, a little cheese, nuts, beans, and some dressing (careful to keep it light; the nuts and cheese have a lot of calories) and you are good to go! Avocado is another favorite that I add when they are in season. Hummus is another staple in the house as well. We eat a lot of Mediterranean food (hummus, veggies, pitas, olives), pasta with veggies, soups, veggies enchiladas made with three different kinds of beans, salmon, etc. Leeks have become a favorite veggie of mine and they are loaded with good for you vitamins! We are also getting to like various chards sauteed with lemon juice. The salt is low in our household, the water consumption high, and we try to get in exercise wherever possible. No one is deprived (we have dessert often!) and everyone is feeling healthy. Of course, we have a glass of wine now and then as well, which is a treat for us stressed parents!
I included this picture to show what I have recently learned. This glass of wine is about 4 ounces. Which is around 90 calories and is a "serving" size of wine. I was shocked to learn that the wine I am having at restaurants is a good 8-12 ounces of wine! That is a lot of wine and calories in one glass. So at home, I use really small (you'll have to find these at antique stores or thrift stores; they don't make wine glasses small anymore!) glasses to be sure that I am not being heavy handed with the wine.
I am sure most of you have stopped reading at this point, but since I was getting so many questions, I decided to answer a few and pass on some healthy tips. If you have any, please share them and post a comment!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Our New Project

Alas, it has been quite some time since I have written, but I am sure you all can understand since you too have busy lives! We took on a new project this weekend, with the help of my wonderful mother (thank goodness!). Our backyard, or sideyard here at our apartment is rather spacious and a great space for our family. Since moving in, we have only stared at it, freed it of weeds, allowed weeds to grow again, stared at it some more, ignored it, and thrown our hands up at it often. Finally, we decided that it was time to get our hands dirty (and boy did we!) and get this yard put together. It was a weekend straight out of HGTV! Shopping was done, bags of materials purchased, loaded, unloaded, etc. The three adults worked hard, and the girls played hard. They were thrilled with the activity, since something "new" was in the air. Everything came together nicely, and aside from a few sore hamstrings, the weekend went really well. Here are the before and after pictures!


A thorn in the side has turned into a wonderful little gem. We plan on enjoying this as much as possible this summer....
Now, on to another project....hmmmmm.